stroppy

Stroppy is a primarily British colloquial adjective used to describe someone who is bad-tempered, argumentative, touchy, or rebellious. It implies a specific type of petulance or difficult behavior, often suggesting the person is making a fuss over something perceived as minor. The term originated in the mid-20th century, likely as a shortening of the word "obstreperous" (meaning noisy and difficult to control), though some etymologists suggest a connection to the phrase "getting in a strop."

While many speakers use the term neutrally to describe a fleeting bad mood—particularly regarding children, teenagers, or even inanimate objects that aren't working—it has become contested due to its gendered application. Critics argue that "stroppy" is disproportionately used to describe women who are asserting themselves, negotiating, or voicing complaints. In this context, the term can serve to dismiss a woman's valid concerns as irrational emotional outbursts or difficult personality traits, similar to words like "bossy" or "shrill." Conversely, defenders of the term argue it is a useful, non-vulgar descriptor for general prickliness that applies to anyone acting unreasonably, regardless of gender.

Example:
"After waiting an hour for the table, the customers began to get a bit stroppy with the manager."

Example:
"The media labeled the actress 'stroppy' simply because she refused to answer invasive questions about her personal life."